I Built a Business, Then Forgot Why I Started It
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Have you ever noticed yourself bracing before you look at your business metrics? The information itself isn't the problem. What you make it mean is.
I had three numbers running my Fridays for years: revenue, new followers, and email subscribers (or worse, unsubscribes). Up meant I was smart and doing all the right things. Down or flat meant something wasn't working, and that was obviously a direct reflection of my business acumen (or, more accurately, lack thereof).
I spent so many years striving: trying to fix things, crack the code, learn more, get smarter.
And you know what happened? Business burnout, though, that's not quite the right name for it. It wasn't the business that burned me out. It was the report card I'd built underneath the business without ever meaning to build one at all, much like the one I used back in school to measure and judge my own intellect, and what I made it mean when the grades weren’t high.
The Years I Spent Climbing
Becoming a coach wasn't something I went looking for. It found me, after a corporate career that financially worked but didn't feel like me anymore. And when I finally stepped into this entrepreneurial life, I felt that excitement everyone talks about. I had that "I get to create this thing" feeling. I was learning constantly, asking other people how they did it, piecing together my own version of a business as I went.
And then, somewhere in there, the creating turned into striving without me really noticing the shift. I started measuring success in dollars and cents, follows and subscribes. I started watching how other coaches positioned themselves and trying to do business the way they did business (as if there was a right way out there that I just hadn't found yet). I kept doing and doing and doing, and the doing wasn't working, yet I didn't stop. Not for a long time. Not until I was completely burned out and had to give the thing a name, which is how "business burnout" got coined in my own head one exhausted afternoon.
My burnout wasn’t actually a product of running a business, though. It was the result of plugging away, so focused on cracking the code, without the realization of just how far I'd drifted from the reason I became a coach in the first place.
From There To Here
I want to be clear that I'm not writing any of this from some untouched, figured-it-all-out place. I lived in that exhausted version of my business for a stretch I'd rather not put an exact number on. I could have thought (for the hundredth time) I just need a different strategy. Instead, I made the decision to only do what my heart and gut said an actual hella yes to. My podcast (not monetized, folks) is one of the things that came out of that decision. So is most of what follows.
The Flow Litmus Test
These days my litmus test for almost everything in my business is simple. Does this feel like flow? Not "is this easy," because building something is still building something, the way a sculptor is still working even while they're loving the process of it. The question is whether the effort feels aligned with who I am, or whether I'm pushing a rock uphill because I think I'm supposed to be the kind of person who pushes rocks uphill.
There's a little phrase I've landed on that I'll probably keep saying for the rest of my life and to anyone who will hear me: “When you wrap what you're doing, and how you're doing it, around who you are, happiness and success will meet you there.” And it meets you in the doing when that doing is aligned.
Find Your Own Currency
A huge aha came when I asked myself what my true currency was. Yes, I pay bills with dollars. But when I thought about it, my true currency is impact. That's the thing I'm actually trying to accumulate. And once I named that, I started making different decisions about my time, my offers, even who I said yes to working with.
What's your currency? Is it impact, like mine turned out to be? Is it freedom, time, creative expression, or something else entirely?
Back Into The Number
Once you know your currency, the dollars and cents part gets a lot less mysterious. I call this back-calculating your revenue requirements, and it works like this: identify what kind of freedom you want, what kind of fulfillment you're after, what kind of life balance would feel beautiful, and only then figure out what it would cost to live that life.
Most people skip straight to a revenue goal pulled out of thin air, their ego, or borrowed from someone else's Instagram post. But when you do it in the right order, the number is almost always smaller than you expected. A lot of fulfillment is genuinely free, a cup of coffee on the back porch watching the squirrels, that kind of thing. The sailing-around-the-world version of fulfillment costs more, sure, but at least now you're budgeting for your actual life instead of a vague idea of success someone else handed you.
I actually built a free resource that walks through this exact order, freedom first, then fulfillment, then life balance, then finally the dollars. It's called Success on Your Own Terms™, and there's a link to it at the bottom of this post if you want to work through it for yourself.
Untangle Pricing From Your Ego
This one took me a while to see clearly. We tie our pricing to our egos and to fear more than we'd like to admit. That voice that says "Am I even good enough to charge this?" puts downward pressure on your pricing. And the belief that others in your field who charge huge prices must be better than you keeps you hiding.
Here's a little truth bomb for you: Your pricing isn't about you. It's about the value of the service you provide.
Nowadays, I simply help potential clients see the value of the transformation from where they are to where they want to be. I know I can get them there. But I leave it to them to make their own value-based decision once they’re given the the map. Whether they accept, like, balk at, or can afford my services is actually none of my business.
Off The Treadmill, Onto The Path
So I'll ask you what I had to ask myself. What is that compelling why that brought you to your work? What kind of freedom do you actually want, and what would you do with it? What does fulfillment look like for you on an ordinary Tuesday, not some far-off milestone? And if you stripped away what the Joneses are doing, what the commercials are selling, what everyone else's report card says success should look like, what would your definition actually look like?
I talked about a lot of this recently on the podcast with Trish Tonaj, who helps entrepreneurs share their own stories so they can be seen, heard, found, and hired rather than disappearing into the same striving I'm describing here.
You don't have to overhaul your whole business to combat business burnout. You just have to stop checking the report card before you've checked in with yourself first.
Warmly,
Linda
Ditch the hustle & find your flow (a smarter path to success)
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ABOUT LINDA BUCHER
Linda Bucher is a Master Certified Life Coach and host of Conversations Worth Your While™. She guides people who know they're meant for more to align their lives and work with who they are, what matters most, and the gifts they’re here to share.
Her purpose is helping people unleash what they were born to bring.
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