At every life transition, our identities shift which is why what you wanted at 19 isn’t what you want at 30 and what you wanted at 30 isn’t what you want at 55.
My mid-life clients say:
“My life looks great on paper, but…”
“I don’t look forward to work.”
“My career feels stagnant.”
“I don’t feel like I’m getting anywhere.”
“What or who I wanted in my 20’s isn’t what I want now.”
And my 20 and 30 something clients say:
“I don’t want to get too deep into what I’m doing because I want to discover what I’m supposed to be doing.” Or they tell me they don’t want to make the mistakes they saw their parents make, going in the wrong direction or settling for less in a relationship.
I also have clients who feel as if they’re living someone else’s life. Their identities are so closely tied to the relationships and the job they have, that they’ve lost themselves.
And then I have some clients who are between jobs or have retired or are on the downslope of their career but are NOT ready for the rocking chair. They are itching to discover what’s next.
And then there are my Scanner clients. They are smart, driven people who have a widely diverse set of interests and a low tolerance for boredom. They simply can’t pick one thing to do when there’s so many appealing things on the menu of life. They stay paralyzed by the number of choices before them, worried about making a wrong move.
Can you relate?
All of the people I work with have one thing in common: They want to do what they love and feel a level of success that feels true to who they are. I call this authentic living. And it starts when you discover who you are and what you want.
Discovering who you are and what you want is the first step in creating the Big, Beautiful, Rich, Full Life you deserve and it’s the focus of Part 2 of my FREE TRAINING SERIES, Your Life But Better. Get free access to the dashboard where you’ll get the recording of this free training along with Part 1: 12 Accelerators for Creating the Big, Beautiful Life You Deserve.
Oh, and one more thing. If you’re serious about creating your big, beautiful, rich, full life, for real, you’ve got to make it a priority and set aside the time to reconnect with yourself. And if you want it sooner rather than later, you can work directly with me in an affordable, group coaching setting in my upcoming Living Learning Lab. Living Learning Lab A focuses on designing your future around who you are and what you want. We’ll dive deeply into each of the areas I teach in the Part 2’s free training. In the lab you will experience discussion, coaching, and accountability while working with an expert (yours truly). Living Learning Lab A starts next week and runs for 4 weeks. The enrollment deadline for Lab-A and for the bundle (Labs A, B & C) is Wednesday, April 28th. So claim your spot and invest in your Big, Beautiful, Rich Full Life using the options on the Your Life But Better Dashboard.